Mrs. Harrington Funeral Incident
Angela's AshesThe Mrs. Harrington incident is a decisive reversal in Frank McCourt’s early working life: a delivery to a bereaved household becomes a confrontation shaped by prejudice, religious fear, and unequal authority, and ends with Frank dismissed from the post office before his mother and the parish priest secure only a temporary reprieve. The episode’s comic misunderstandings and escalating misfortune do not soften its material stakes. Frank needs his wages to save for America, while his status as a temporary telegram boy leaves him with little protection when an employer’s account is accepted over his own.
Background: a precarious job
Frank is a temporary telegram boy, a position sharply distinguished from the permanent post-office jobs that older boys hold. Permanent workers have uniforms, waterproof capes, holidays, and the prospect of further examinations leading to work as a postman or clerk. Temporary boys receive less pay, have no uniform or holidays, may be fired after a single day’s illness, and cannot remain in the job beyond sixteen. Frank has also been told to deliver his telegrams without stopping for a drink, a visit home, or even a prayer. The incident therefore unfolds inside a workplace where discipline is strict but protection is uneven.
The assignment concerns Mr. Harrington, an Englishman whose wife has died. The post-office boys regard sympathy telegrams as unlikely to bring tips and teach Frank a cynical performance for grieving households: appear solemn, pray, and make the bereaved feel that a tip is due. That advice turns grief into an anticipated transaction. Yet Frank’s delivery is not merely another attempt to earn a gratuity. Mr. Harrington asks whether he is Irish, then accuses Irish people of causing his wife’s tuberculosis and calls them a race of ghouls. The dead woman, Frank learns, was born and raised in Limerick; her husband’s English identity and his resentment of Irish people make the house a site of national and religious hostility as well as mourning.
The encounter in the Harrington house
Frank has delivered telegrams to the house before. On earlier visits Mr. Harrington was away on insurance business, and Mrs. Harrington had given him a generous tip. This time Mr. Harrington answers the door. He invites Frank inside, locks the hall door, and says that the boy will want to see his wife. The earlier expectation of a tip is displaced by a tense encounter in which Frank is brought into the presence of the dead woman and made to confront the husband’s anger.
Mr. Harrington offers lemonade, rejects it as inappropriate to mourning, and gives Frank sherry instead. He refills Frank’s glass, goes to pour whiskey for himself, discovers that it is gone, and leaves to buy another bottle, ordering Frank to stay. Alone and dizzy, Frank thinks about the Church’s teaching that there is no salvation outside it and about Theresa Carmody, whose fate he fears because she died outside the Church. He imagines that he might save Mrs. Harrington by baptizing her. Frank takes sherry as the baptismal water and begins the rite; Mr. Harrington returns and angrily demands to know what he is doing. Frank’s religious anxiety has thus become an action in the room, but the source presents it through his confused, drink-affected understanding rather than as a deliberate attempt to insult the bereaved husband.
Mr. Harrington then pushes a ham sandwich on Frank and collapses into a chair. Frank becomes sick and rushes to the window. When he vomits onto the rosebush, Mr. Harrington charges at him. Frank climbs out, drops into the rosebush, and escapes with a twisted ankle; Mr. Harrington calls after him, throws household objects, and pleads with him to stay and keep vigil. The episode’s grotesque collision of mourning, food, drink, and flight gives it a bodily, farcical momentum, but the imbalance of power remains clear: Frank is a child worker locked inside a house, while the adult who controls the account of what happened can report him to his employer.
Dismissal and appeal
Frank rides back to the post office confused and in pain. Mrs. O’Connell rebukes him for taking all day to deliver seven telegrams to one address and accuses him of being drunk. Frank says that Mr. Harrington made him eat the ham and drink the sherry, but she dismisses this explanation. Because Mr. Harrington is considered a refined Englishman, she treats his version as credible and Frank’s as discreditable, orders him to hand in his telegram pouch and bicycle, and says that his days at the post office are over. Frank protests that he needs the job so he can save for America, only to be told that America would be better off without someone like him.
Frank is left to imagine returning home to tell Angela McCourt that he has lost his work. He considers going back to Mr. Harrington’s house to throw a brick through the window, but stops himself out of respect for the dead. Instead, he goes toward the riverbank, thinking that he cannot stay away all night because his mother would worry. His return to the post office brings no immediate relief: Angela begs the staff to take him back, and they refuse, repeating the accusations that he mistreated the corpse and fled with the food and drink. In the official version, his explanation has disappeared; he is reduced to a story about a telegram boy who cannot be trusted.
The reversal comes through intervention rather than a finding that Frank’s account was right. The parish priest writes to the post office and asks them to take him back. They agree to keep him only until his sixteenth birthday, not permanently. Mrs. O’Connell invokes the history of English actions against Ireland to argue that Mr. Harrington had no right to complain about a little ham and sherry in comparison with the Great Famine. Her appeal reframes Frank’s private misconduct—or supposed misconduct—as a small blow struck against a much larger history of injustice. The office’s decision changes, but the temporary limit on Frank’s employment remains.
Significance and aftermath
The episode links national prejudice to the everyday allocation of credibility. Mr. Harrington blames Irish people for his wife’s illness; at the post office, his status as an English gentleman helps his complaint prevail over a poor Irish boy’s explanation. Angela’s plea and the priest’s letter can reopen the decision, but neither removes the institutional insecurity built into Frank’s temporary position. His reinstatement is conditional and brief, not a restoration of the supposedly steady future enjoyed by permanent employees.
The event also extends Frank’s religious guilt beyond his memories of Theresa. Faced with a dead Protestant woman and the teaching that salvation lies within the Church, he responds by trying to baptize her, then fears the spiritual implications of what he has done. Later, when Frank speaks to Saint Francis, he recalls Theresa and the green sofa, his sins on Carrigogunnell, the Christian Brother who closed the door in his face, and the Harrington incident among the troubles weighing on him. The workplace confrontation therefore persists as part of a larger inventory of shame, exclusion, and loss. It is at once a comic episode of misunderstanding and a consequential warning: Frank’s need to earn money and escape to America is real, but the route toward that future depends on institutions willing to treat a poor child’s word as worth hearing.